Does That Make Sense Why Self Improvement Is Important

Sometimes we always think, "I wish I were somebody else," when all of our uncertainties, anxieties, and insecurities have accumulated.  The majority of the time, we think and believe that most people are better than us. In actuality, though, most people are much more afraid than we are.

At a party, you see a very attractive girl sitting by herself, drinking a glass of Asti Spumanti. "She looks so perfectly calm and confident," you think. However, you could be astounded that she is thinking if you were able to read through her translucent mind, which would reveal a number of clouds of ideas. Are people discussing the reason I'm sitting here by myself?... Why don't men think I'm attractive?I don't like how slender my ankles seem. I wish I had my best friend's level of intelligence.

When we see a young entrepreneur, we think, "Wooh... what else could he ask for?" He sighs to himself as he looks in the mirror, "I detest my large eyes. Why won't my pals talk to me, I wonder? I'm hoping that Mom and Dad can still come to an agreement. 

Isn't that amusing? While they look at us and think the same thing, we gaze at other individuals, envious of their ridiculously flawless appearance, and wish we could switch places with them. We are insecure about those who are insecure about us. Because we are engulfed in silent desperation, we experience low self-esteem, lack of confidence, and give up on improving ourselves.

You, of all people, are the last to realize that you have a bothersome habit, such as biting your fingernails or having a bad mouth.

One of my friends never tires of chatting. Additionally, she is usually the only person in a conversation that appears engaged in what she has to say. She doesn't realize how severely she has become socially handicapped, which is gradually influencing the people around her, and all of our other friends choose to avoid the circles whenever she is present.

One key to self-improvement is to LISTEN and TALK to a trusted friend. Locate a person with whom you feel at ease discussing even the most delicate subjects. "Do you think I am ill-mannered?" "Do I always sound so argumentative?" "Do I talk too loud?" "Does my breath smell?" and "Have I ever bored you when we were together?" are some examples of questions to ask.  This will make it clear to the other person that you are interested in the process of improving yourself. Listen to her feedback and criticism, and avoid responding with phrases like "Don't exaggerate! That is simply who I am!  Additionally, open your heart and thoughts. In exchange, you could wish to offer your friend helpful feedback that will enable her to become a better person.

"Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all," goes one of Whitney Houston's songs. It's true. You have to love yourself before you can love others. Keep in mind that you cannot give what you lack.

Allow them to see that you are an example and a result of self-improvement before offering them advice on how to do the same. By improving ourselves, we become better people, and when we inspire others, the rest of the world will follow.

Quit considering yourselves inferior humans. The refrains of "If only I was richer… if only I was thinner" and similar thoughts should be forgotten.  The first step to bettering yourself is to accept who you really are. We must quit evaluating ourselves against others just to discover that we have ten more reasons to be envious.

Everybody has insecurities. No one is flawless. Better items, better characteristics, better body parts, etc., are things we constantly wish we possessed. However, for people to be content with themselves, life does not have to be flawless. It is not enough to proclaim to the world that you are the best and that you are flawless if you want to love and improve yourself. It's the quality of contentment and acceptance. We start to feel satisfied and joyful when we start to better ourselves.